Counselor- You are getting divorced so your kids need counseling right? That is what the wife says. She will find a local counselor who fits and supports her agenda due to her own hatred of men or love of money to talk to your kids and note the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and other issues that come with divorcing. Her chosen counselor will willingly testify that the kids are having problems because of the divorce and insinuate that an equal custody agreement is not proper. They will be anti men. Your wife, her lawyers, and these counselors will do all they can do make the kids out as damaged and in need of counseling with the husband being required to pay for it, despite the kids having love and all the economic advantages that so many kids are lacking. If you have deep pockets and a diagnosis from a biased counselor, expect a court to order this counseling to continue often at your expense even if the kids continue to ask why they have to go to a counselor when nothing is wrong with them.