​Emo Babysitter- Once the custody issues are sorted out or even while they are still pending, your wife does not want you to see your kids unless it’s on her terms. You may have a flexible job, be self employed, or have quality family members who your kids love and want to spend time with. Your wife may be a career woman like you or forced to get a job after the divorce and she often needs a babysitter. You offer to watch the kid anytime she has to work or needs a break etc. Rather than except your generous offer and allow your kids to spend time with relatives they love, she will hire a babysitter to watch them. These babysitters often change for various reasons and are found by mom from Craigs list with little to no vetting yet the mom wants them to watch your kids instead of allowing you to be with them. Factor this issue in when arguing for custody time and always ask to be given right of first refusal when your ex wife cannot watch the kids during her custody time.