For all the difficulties you face once you are facing divorce, the last one most men think about is whether they are actually the father of their kids. The list of issues is endless and they are enough to break most men financially and emotionally. The internet and all the divorce websites are filled with stories on these issues. When it comes to kids, you almost need a video of your wife molesting your kids to have the advantage in a family court proceeding.
The one issue that seems to be pushed under the rug during this difficult time is whether the kids a woman represented to you that you fathered are actually yours and not some other mans who was having sex with your wife behind your back. She may have taken a vow but the vow means nothing to most women. They will tell any lie necessary to protect or improve their financial status. If you don't think it can happen to you, you are a fool. While men who make less money or have a lower status career are more likely to be victims of this scam, it can happen to a rich guy as well. A woman always wants more than what she has, but if she is married to a millionaire who provides everything, don't think she is satisfied and is going to be loyal. These richer men are actually easier to cheat on and deceive because they walk around thinking their wife will be happy and faithful because he providers everything and treats her well. She was probably bored and cheating on you with a bad boy before and after she thought she had your kids. Your rich ass is boring and predictable. The tattooed guy with bigger muscles and a spotty work history are quite simply more fun to her and fun is easier to have when you have financial security waiting at home when you are taking a break from the fun. There is no window that is not open to your wife if it means infidelity or fun. If your wife was on websites that involved freaky behavior or web sites like hifive.com where you buy and sell people for fun only weeks after giving birth to what you think is your kid, do you think its possible that your kid may not be yours? She might be barely healed from child birth before she is back to her bad behavior. The skilled women will know how to make you feel you are such a wonderful man and father day to day while she has trysts with men whenever she can fit it in to her schedule. Your wife isn't what she presents. You are a means to an end.
My point is that for all you are dealing with once the relationship goes bad, take a step back and look at everything. For many men it is often more than just child support, custody, and alimony. The woman you married is not the one you divorce and you get to know the real her after the divorce process begins. In this world, atleast 20-30% of men who think they are the father of their child are not. You might be married to the perfect soccer mom but don't assume she didn't make a mistake on purpose and have a fling with a man who ended up being the father of your kid.
For all the advantages women have in the family court system, paternity fraud is the worst thing a woman can do. In addition to cheating and then representing a man is the father of her kid when she isn't in order to avoid shame and get her kids taken care of pre and post divorce, court systems do not hold her accountable for such behavior. You can bet she knows everyone she slept with and if there is a chance the husband is not the father of her kids, she will take her own test to confirm the truth so she can plot accordingly. Infidelity works both ways, but when she carries the baby she has the fraud advantage.
I tell all men, including those who are happily married and have new babies, to go get the DNA tests done asap. Its not that expensive and its better to know now. Odds are you are your child's father, but if you aren't you want to know now to avoid the financial and emotional heartbreak that will come later because eventually you will find out or live in a mental prison until you die.
Once you know who your wife actually is and you are now in the divorce process, you will question everything. Some of what you question may be over the top, but once you have been red pilled via divorce, everything seems clear and you know what is and what isn't. Pray that paternity fraud is not an issue on the table as no man deserves to find out he isn't the father of who he thought were his kids.
I never have followed my own advice and despite my doubts, I still cant bring myself to get the test done. Women who do this to a man should go to prison for a long time. The mental prison a man faces when it is a legitimate issue and ignored is much worse.
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