I don't watch as much sports as I used to when I was younger. Getting older makes it a bit harder to follow players and wear jerseys of men/kids half my age. With rare exception, from the outside seeing other men and how they dress in their sports gear, it looks pretty stupid. Most of my soccer jerseys and other either valuable or unique sports memorabilia collected over a life of playing and watching sports(that my ex wife didn't steal from me under my nose before I could move out of my house) is boxed up and waiting for the day they can be sold. I have no interest in them and I have some pretty cool jerseys. I am even considering quitting a fantasy baseball league I have been in with the same guys for 30 years. No I am not depressed but as you age some things don't matter as much as they used to and life experience can make your priorities change. That being said, I still watch the NBA and have been a Lakers fan since I was a little kid when Kareem came over from Milwaukee and we got Magic, Kobe, Shaq etc. Nostalgia at its best. While I am not as passionate as I was as years past, I still try to keep up with them.
What does all this rambling have to do with divorce, child custody, and female nature etc, you ask?
This summer they signed DaMarcus Cousins whose story with injuries and the amount of money it has cost him is well documented. As soon as he signs, he tears up his knee and may never wear the Lakers uniform. Making things worse for him, if you haven't heard, Cousins just got married over the weekend. He has kids by another woman so is probably paying her a ton of child support which goes not for the kid but for the baby mama. For some reason Cousins thinks its a good idea to get remarried and guess what, he wants his kid to attend the wedding. Can you believe the gall of such a request? Shockingly baby mama refuses to allow the kid to attend and it pisses Cousins off as it would any man. Baby mama turns on a hidden tape/video recorder and after refusing to allow his kid to attend his wedding, she gets Cousins on tape making all sorts of threats to her. She basically alienates his kid from him, refuses even the slightest act of kindness to a man who no matter their differences, is through the system of female wealth building called child support giving money every month to her for doing nothing. This set up is not new and is probably ongoing with Cousins and baby mama so provoking him is not a challenge. The fact he is a 7ft alpha male athlete type makes it even easierto provoke. He is now on tape saying things he shouldn't and its going to cost him quite a bit more had it was he said she said about what he said.
As I referenced in a prior post, I had this happen to me. The only difference is that I found the recorder by accident before I got to the point I was outwardly making the threats that were running through my mind because of how a woman I loved and took care of was using the system to destroy me financially and blatantly alienate my kids from me with support of the family court system. After losing everything I had worked for and being under emotional and financial pressure, I very easily could have made threats to my soon to be ex. While certainly not the right thing do, under the pressures of the loss of money and family and a woman who knows how to say the right things to make the situation worse, to ask even a top notch man to not respond at least once inappropriately is asking a lot. Women know this as well. That is why they will carry recorders with them everywhere once the relationship starts to go bad or they think that divorce becomes a possibility. The wrong thing said on tape can cost you professionally and personally. The examples I could list of this behavior by women is endless. You don't ever see men taping women with such planning. By the time a man starts taping his woman, its too late. She knows all the tricks and your efforts to catch her cheating or behaving improper is not going to happen. With men, even after its obvious the relationship is over or has been from some time, we still lash out because we are the ones being isolated from our children and destroyed financially well after the divorce. The double standard is off the charts.
Therefore, here is your free tip of the day.....
Once your relationship even appears to be slightly going bad, SHUT THE HELL UP!!! DONT SAY ANYTHING OUT OF ANGER OR THAT WILL HURT YOUR FINANCIAL OR CUSTODIAL INTERESTS. ASSUME THERE ARE RECORDERS IN EVERY ROOM AND ON YOUR WIFES PERSON. YOUR ASS IS BEING TAPED AND THESE WOMEN ARE BETTER AT IT THAN DONNIE BRASCO AT A FAMILY SIT DOWN.
Do you think I am embellishing or just saying things to scare you? Think again. Cousins is just a high profile example. I was married to the perfect looking soccer mom. If you met her you would think she is the nicest and prettiest woman you have ever met. It means nothing. Its an act. Its fake. Whether it was her own thinking the marriage was over(notice its thinking with women and they wont ever tell you until all their contingency plans for divorce are in place) or me stupidly dropping hints that I thought it was over, her vengeful side appeared. She was going to do anything to get all the money and alienate me from my kids despite the life I provided for her and no matter how different we might be, never doing anything to threaten or insult her. It didn't matter. She was going to covertly tape my ass. A good husband. The father of her children. She was doing this and not even caring if her attempts at provocation could cause me to say or do anything that could cost me my professional licenses or go to jail. Your wife will feel nothing if you end up in prison or cant earn money. What this does to your kids mean nothing yet she will say to a judge she has the best interests of the kids more than you do so she could should have primary custody. Do you get how Twilight Zone this whole system is for men?
Your wife is probably doing this to you right now. You aren't exempt from such behavior. Your sweet and quiet wife knows exactly what to do and there are lawyers out there who encourage such behavior to help a woman get the kids even from a good dad.
Don't say I didn't warn you. If you need help in this area or want to know how to combat it like I did to help preserve your chance at 50/50 custody, which I got by finding the perfect soccer moms dirty secrets, and maybe save some of your money or job, MenUnited.TV is here.
The Red Devil