For those men who are back in the dating world and meeting women have you ever asked yourself how the women you meet have such a nice house or car etc when she has a spotty work history or is clearly not someone who works hard with any type of career path? You have a more solid career than she does and are probably harder working, yet this single mom, often with a couple of kids primarily living with her seems to be doing pretty well financially or atleast as well if not better than you. When you ask a woman what she does for a living, she probably embellishes her job title or her work history because the assets she has can justify it. She wouldn't dare say she took her husband to the cleaners and is proud of it. She wants this lottery she won kept under wraps.
Why does this matter when she is not tied to you and you hopefully have no plan to marry her? It is important because unless you are just dating to get laid and have no emotional connections(maybe not a bad idea), you are hopefully assessing the character of a woman you may allow into your life. This is also important for the young man considering marriage as all men need to understand the nature of women and the divorce industry and what it is designed to do. It is simply a transfer of wealth that remains unspoken so the virtues of feminism can continued to be spewed while also narrowing the wealth and success gap between men and women. Women simply take resources created by men and men must justify whether the resources they create is worth the type of woman they will attract because ultimately she will get your resources if you choose to live the conventional life of marriage and kids like many of our parents did. If you are a man that is so jaded that you have no intention of getting married and just plan on having no kids or a bunch of bastard children to beat the system, then you are either morally challenged or a victim because the system has changed your approach toward family life. Either way the divorce laws have caused men to abandon the family unit or women to pursue divorce for financial reward which have lead to its ongoing moral decay. Society will continue to show the effect of this as less people marry and more divorces take place.
The best example of how warped the system is Jeff Bezos from Amazon. He just got divorced and voluntarily gave his wife 35 billion dollars. From a technical standpoint she probably she could have gotten more but as the result of divorce she is now one of the richest women in the world for doing essentially nothing. Assuming she is a stay at home mom and raised the families kids, that service has value. It does not have value of half of a highly successful man or any man who has built wealth through his hard work. She does not deserve 35 billion dollars or anywhere near that. Her husband created and built the wealth. He shouldn't have to lose half of it because he was married and the marriage didn't work out. This silent hostage holding by women is something men often realize after it is too late. The system is so bad he just voluntarily gave her the money. He knew fighting was hopeless.
While Bezos may be an extreme example, those of you men who are in marriages and are doing well are likely waiting for your wife to decide when she wants out or when she will force you to leave through her ongoing behavior. She is going to get paid when this does happen no matter what and is likely to get paid money she did not deserve. She did not build your business. She did not put in the work at the company you work hard for every day. Her claiming she raises the kids is not an equal trade. Your success allows her to stay at home with her kids. She should be paying you or taking less in a divorce for that privilege. If she works and makes less, she simply isn't as successful. Why should she live equally to you post divorce. If the child support check a man sends each month does not go for the kids, then why does he have to send it? He should not have to pay for her fancy handbags or clothes.
When you are facing your divorce and you are a successful man who makes way more than your working wife or you married a stay at home woman who turned into a sloth or an addict while you slaved away for your family, she is going to become rich and will likely live better than you going forward once you begin the process. Young men need to understand this so they can prepare for marriage and men who are married need to understand this and manage their assets better before the divorce arrives or you choose stay in a loveless sexless marriage.
The women you meet post divorce who are putting on a front about how successful they are because it appears that way are typically not self made. Between dividing the assets the man likely built, alimony, and child support, the woman is living good. The lawyers who represented her want her to have the assets to justify the fees for the unnecessary time spent to delay the process so they could get paid from the assets you built. The lawyers involved in a divorce with kids and assets are wanting to get their share of the marital assets.
The next time you go out on a date, ask yourself what type of woman you are meeting. She's not likely what she is pretending to be despite her wealth and if she preaches that she is poor or was left to struggle financially she is probably lying. Think about these things before you decide to get married or if you haven't learned your lesson from your own divorce.
The Red Devil